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19. Quoted in Jon Ronson, So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed, New York: Riverhead Books, 2015.

20. Penelope Green, ‘Carefully smash the patriarchy’, The New York Times, 18 March 2019.

21. James Gilligan, ‘Shame, guilt, and violence’, Social Research, 2003, 70(4), pp. 1149–80.

22. Alyssa Toomey, ‘Nigella Lawson choking incident: Photographer describes scene as «so violent»’, E! News (online), 9 January 2014.

23. James Gilligan, Violence: Reflections on a national epidemic, New York: Vintage Books, 1997, p. 111.

24. Judith Graham, Bulletin #4422, Violence Part 2: Shame and humiliation, University of Maine, 2001.

25. Germaine Greer, On Rage, Melbourne: Melbourne University Press, 2008

26. Michelle Jones, A Fight About Nothing: Constructions of domestic violence, PhD thesis, University of Adelaide, 2004.

27. D. G. Dutton & S. K. Golant, The Batterer: A psychological profile, New York: Basic Books, 1995.

28. Ibid.

29. Erich Fromm, The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness, Penguin, 1973, p. 323.

30. N. S. Websdale, ‘Of nuclear missiles and love objects: The humiliated fury of Kevin Jones’, Journal of Contemporary Ethnography, 2010, 39(4), pp. 388–420.

31. J. Brown, ‘Shame and domestic violence: Treatment perspectives for perpetrators from self psychology and affect theory’, Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 2004, 19(1), pp. 39–56.

32. Allan G. Johnson, The Gender Knot: Unraveling our patriarchal legacy. Philadelphia, PA: Temple University Press, 2005.

33. Brené Brown, ‘Listening to Shame’, TED Talk, March 2012.

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4. David Leser, ‘Women, men and the whole damn thing’, The Sydney Morning Herald, 9 February 2018.

5. Michael Ian Black, ‘The boys are not alright’, The New York Times, 21 February 2018.

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8. Ibid., p. 64.

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