People who can not choose what they will have,
must accept what they get; if you are not in control, you must take what you
can gel. •/We wanted to leave on the train in the morning but it doesn’t go
until afternoon, so we must go then. Beggars can’t he choosers./ •/Mary got
a red dress from her sister, although she didn’t like red. She kept it because
she said beggars should not be choosers./ Compare: LOOK A GIFT HORSE IN THE
MOUTH.
[begin with]
{adv. phr.} As a preliminary statement; in the first
place. •/To begin with, you are far too young to get married./
[beg off]
{v.} To ask to be excused. •/Father told Tom to rake the
yard, but Tom tried to beg off./ •/Mrs. Crane accepted an invitation to a
luncheon, but a headache made her beg off./ Compare: BACK OUT.
[beg the question]
{v. phr.}, {literary} To accept as true
something that is still being argued about, before it is proved true; avoid or
not answer a question or problem. •/The girls asked Miss Smith if they should
wear formal dresses to the party; Miss Smith said they were begging the
question because they didn’t know yet if they could get permission for a
party./ •/Laura told Tom that he must believe her argument because she was
right. Father laughed and told Laura she was begging the question./ Compare:
TAKE FOR GRANTED.
[behalf]
See: IN BEHALF OF or ON BEHALF OF, IN ONE’S BEHALF or ON ONE’S
BEHALF.
[behavior]
See: ON ONE’S GOOD BEHAVIOR.
[be hard on]
{v. phr.} To be strict or critical with another; be
severe. •/"Don’t be so hard on Jimmy," Tom said. "He is bound to rebel as he
gets older."/
[behind]
See: DRY BEHIND THE EARS, FALL BEHIND, GET BEHIND, HANG BACK or
HANG BEHIND.
[behind bars]
{adv. phr.} In jail; in prison. •/He was a pickpocket
and had spent many years behind bars./ •/That boy is always in trouble and
will end up behind bars./
[behind one’s back]
{adv. phr.} When one is absent; without one’s
knowledge or consent; in a dishonest way; secretly; sneakily. •/Say it to his
face, not behind his back./ •/It is not right to criticize a person behind
his back./ Contrast: TO ONE’S FACE.
[behind the eight-ball]
{adj. phr.}, {slang} In a difficult
position; in trouble. •/Mr. Thompson is an older man, and when he lost his
job, he found he was behind the eight-ball./ •/Bill can’t dance and has no
car, so he is behind the eight-ball with the girls./ Compare: HAVE TWO
STRIKES AGAINST ONE(2), IN A HOLE.
[behind the scenes]
{adv. phr.} Out of sight; unknown to most people;
privately. •/Much of the banquet committee s work was done behind the
scenes./ •/John was president of the club, but behind the scenes Lee told
him what to do./
[behind the times]
{adj. phr.} Using things not in style; still
following old ways; old-fashioned. •/Johnson’s store is behind the times./
•/The science books of 30 years ago are behind the times now./ •/Mary
thinks her parents are behind the times because they still do the foxtrot and
don’t know any new dances./