Soon after Chertkov’s departure, Masha’s elder sister Tanya also began to loosen her ties to her father by beginning an affair with a man fourteen years older than her who had six children. She felt very guilty, feeling she had sullied herself. Mikhail Sukhotin was unhappily married to a woman who was gravely ill, and who in fact died later that year, but that did not make it easier. Tanya’s previous romantic life had also been quite unhappy. It was difficult living in a house where all the attention was directed at her father. Everything revolved around him, and Tanya felt aggrieved that he gave his time to just about anyone who turned up to see him, but not to his own daughter.64 She had been devastated in October 1886 when Chertkov, at the age of thirty-two, had married Anna diterikhs, a general’s daughter from St Petersburg. Anna Konstantinovna, or Galya, as she was universally known, was twenty-seven (Tanya was then twenty-two), and not only was she educated, having been one of the first graduates of the university courses that had finally been opened to women in 1878, but also beautiful – Yaroshenko had painted her portrait in his famous 1883 painting
Tanya had been a peacemaker for her parents, and she was keenly missed. In the summer of 1897 Masha lamented in a letter to Galya Chertkova that there was a sadness at Yasnaya Polyana, with each person dealing with their own issues, and feeling very lonely.68 There certainly seemed to be many problems in both generations of the Tolstoy family that year. Sergey’s marriage had gone wrong soon after he married in 1895, and in 1897 his wife divorced him after their son was born.69 Ilya now had three children (a fourth had died before his second birthday), his wife Sonya was expecting another, and he was always short of money. Lev junior had recovered from the nervous breakdown he had suffered after the famine-relief work out in Samara, and had married the daughter of the Swedish doctor who had cured him in Stockholm, but, like most of his brothers, he was fanatically opposed to his father’s views. After he and his wife moved into the wing at Yasnaya Polyana, there had been many bitter rows with Lev senior. The situation with the three youngest children was not much better. Andrey, who turned twenty in 1897, had been expelled from school for tearing up a picture of Nicholas II, and was leading a dissipated life. He was already a notorious womaniser, first angering his father by wanting to marry a peasant girl from Yasnaya Polyana whom he had become involved with at the age of fifteen, then absconding to the Caucasus where he fell in love with a Georgian princess, who in due course was also unceremoniously dropped.70 Andrey constantly ran up large debts, and expected his mother to bail him out. Eighteen-year-old Misha, still at school in Moscow, was suffering teenage angst, and Alexandra (Sasha), who turned thirteen in 1897, had turned into a tomboy with an unwavering hostility towards her mother. This was hardly surprising as Sonya had neglected her youngest daughter from the moment she was born.