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Примечания

1. Су Дунпо. Чтобы не забыть сон о покойной жене (пер. с кит. А. Родсет).

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ЧАСТЬ ПЕРВАЯ

Любовь как она есть

Любовь: революция в теории

Новая теория привязанности

Любовь взрослых

Из гипотезы в научный факт

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