Счастье вместе. Нескучное руководство по семейной жизни

Белинда Ласкомб в течение двадцати лет работала штатным автором журнала Time, где писала о взаимоотношениях, браке, воспитании детей и характерных для XXI века переменах в роли женщины. Ее публикации также появлялись в The New York Times, Vogue, Sports Illustrated, Fortune, Arena и во многих международных изданиях. Белинда родилась в Австралии, в Сиднее, сейчас живет в Нью-Йорке. Вот уже двадцать восемь лет она замужем за архитектором.

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