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29. Ibid. 30. Drigotas, S.M., Rusbult, C.E., Wieselquist, J., and Whitton, S.W. (1999). Close partner as sculptor of the ideal self: Behavioral affirmation and the Michelangelo phenomenon. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 77: 293–323. Drigotas, S.M. (2002). The Michelangelo phenomenon and personal well-being. Journal of Personality, 70: 59–77.

31. Murray, S.L., Holmes, J.G., and Griffin, D.W. (1996). The self-fulfilling nature of positive illusions in romantic relationships: Love is not blind, but prescient. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 71: 1155–80.

32. Эту прекрасную работу провели Шелли Гейбл, Гарри Рейс и их коллеги: Gable, S.L., Reis, H.T., Asher, E.R. and Impett, E.A. (2004). What do you do when things go right?: The intrapersonal and interpersonal benefits of sharing positive events. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 87: 228–45.

33. Schueller, S.M. (2006). Personality fit and positive interventions. Is extraversion important? Unpublished manuscript, Department of Psychology, University of Pennsylvania.

34. Gottman and Silver (1999), указ. соч.

35. Keil, C.P. (1998). Loneliness, stress, and human-animal attachment among older adults. In Wilson, C.C., and Turner, D.C., (eds.). Companion Animals in Human Health (pp. 123–34). Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.

36. Эти исследования одиноких людей недавно собрали психологи Белла Деполо и Венди Моррис, не согласные с тем, что они называют идеологией семьи и брака: DePaulo, B.M., and Morris, W.L. (2005). Singles in society and in science. Psychological Inquiry, 16: 57–83. See also DePaulo, B. (2006). Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After. New York: St. Martin’s Press.

37. Много этих предложений от Макгинниса, А.Л. (1979). Фактор Дружбы. Миннеаполис: Аугсбург. Магическое число «три» было предложено профессором Стэнфордского университета Лорой Карстенсен.

38. Русская поговорка.

39. Argyle, M., and Henderson, M. (1984). The rules of friendships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 1: 211–37.

40. Clipman, J.M. (1999, March). A hug a day keeps the blues away: The effect of daily hugs on subjective well-being in college students. Paper presented at the Seventieth Annual Meeting of the Eastern Psychological Association, Boston.

41. В последующем исследовании Джейн Мари Клипмен дала студентам возможность подмигнуть или сделать комплимент вместо объятий. Подмигивание и похвалы также увеличивают ощущение благополучия.

42. Doehring, K.M. (1989). Relieving pain through touch. Advancing Clinical Care, 4: 32–33.

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2. Billings, A.G., and Moos, R.H. (1984). Coping, stress, and social resources among adults with unipolar depression. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 46: 887–91.

3. Carver, C.S., Scheier, M.F., and Weintraub, J.K. (1984). Assessing coping strategies: A theoretically based approach. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 56: 267–83.

4. Nolen-Hoeksema, S., and Morrow, J. (1991). A prospective study of depression and posttraumatic stress symptoms after a natural disaster: The 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 61: 115–21.

5. Schut, H.A. W., Stroebe, M.S., van den Bout, J., and de Keijser, J. (1997). Intervention for the bereaved: Gender differences in the efficacy of two counselling programmes. British Journal of Clinical Psychology, 36: 63–72.

6. McQueeney, D.A., Stanton, A.L., and Sigmon, S. (1997). Efficacy of emotion-focused and problem-focused group therapies for women with fertility problems. Journal of Behavioral Medicine, 20: 313–31.

7. Lynn’s story was profiled by the Los Angeles Times: Foreman, J. (2006, January 16). “The mystery that is mourning.” Los Angeles Times, F4.

8. Tennen, H., and Affleck, G. (1999). Finding benefits in adversity. In Snyder, C.R., (ed.). Coping: The Psychology of What Works (pp. 279–304). New York: Oxford University Press.

9. Nolen-Hoeksema, S., and Davis, C.G. (2002). Positive responses to loss: Perceiving benefits and growth. In Snyder and Lopez, op. cit., 598–606. New York: Oxford University Press.

10. Taylor, S.E., Lichtman, R.R., and Wood, J.V. (1984). Attributions, beliefs about control, and adjustment to breast cancer. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 46: 489–502. See also Collins, R.L., Taylor, S.E., and Skokan, L.A. (1990). A better world or a shattered vision?: Changes in life perspectives following victimization. Social Cognition, 8: 263–85.

11. Обзор см. Taylor, S.E., and Armor, D.A. (1996). Positive illusions and coping with adversity. Journal of Personality, 64: 873–98.