Trump: How to Get Rich

My children have benefited from affluence, as I did, but it’s surprising how unspoiled they are in many ways. They have budgets and live within them. They have limits on their credit cards, and they have them more for protection in an emergency than for anything else. When they were growing up, both of my sons earned extra money during their summer vacations by mowing lawns, cutting trees, moving stones, and doing landscaping work at the Seven Springs estate in Westchester. Ivanka attended the School of American Ballet, which requires an enormous amount of discipline and training.

College kids today are more money savvy, perhaps, than kids from earlier generations. They seem serious about their money. This is a good sign, because the sooner you understand the value of money, the more likely you are to possess large amounts of it.

If your children see you being careless with money, they will assume it’s okay for them to be careless. Children watch. That’s how they learn. Your priorities will often become their priorities. Any family can have a wild card or two, but on the whole, it’s been proven that children will learn from what they see.

If you obviously enjoy going to Las Vegas to gamble, it’s likely they’ll think this is a good thing and will follow suit. If you like going to Carnegie Hall and bring the kids along, they’ll think this is an exciting event because you do. Children inherently like to please, so think about the values you exhibit. Sooner or later, kids will form their own tastes, but the initial exposure is important.

^{With my three eldest children—Don Jr., Ivanka, and Eric—and Barbara Walters for an appearance on 20/20.}

^{(© 2004 Virginia Sherwood/ABC Photo Archives)}

I spent a good deal of time with my children—Don Jr., Ivanka, and Eric—when they were growing up, because we all lived together. We remain very close. I spend less time with Tiffany, as she lives in California with her mother. I do try to include them in my travels and activities as much as possible.

With my youngest daughter, Tiffany.

They know they are always welcome to join the family business. Don Jr. began working full-time at The Trump Organization in September 2001. Trumps are builders, he told Barbara Walters in a recent interview. I hope Ivanka, Eric, and Tiffany might also consider a career with us, but it’s their decision entirely.

I have very high standards, but so do my kids. They’re all high achievers who enjoy working and are not goof-offs in any sense of the word. I wonder why I’m so lucky.

Not teaching your kids about money is like not caring whether they eat. If they enter the world without financial knowledge, they will have a much harder go of it. Make sure you let them in on your way of thinking about money—how you manage expenses, how you save, where you invest.

Let them know that having money isn’t necessarily a sign of greed. It’s an important element for survival. Just getting a first apartment can be a lesson for your kids: They suddenly learn about security deposits! Equip them for life as best you can. Buy them a subscription to Money or some other personal-finance magazine. Give them incentives for saving their allowance.

If they don’t learn about money from you, who’s going to teach them?

Negotiations, anyone? Here I am with George Foreman and Lennox Lewis.

If You Have Them by the Balls, Their Hearts and Minds Will Follow

In this part of the book, I want to tell you about some of my favorite deals and the essential rules of negotiation they exemplify.

First, though, here’s my basic philosophy of how deals are done: It’s all about persuasion, not power.

Power is merely the ability to convince people to accept your ideas.

Just because I am a successful businessman doesn’t mean I always get my way. It’s true that I don’t have to be as vociferous about things as before. I don’t have to act like a bulldozer to get attention. But I have to coax and make my case just like any other negotiator.

An interviewer from Brazil recently asked me what the best parts and the worst parts of having so much money and success were. I had the same answer to both questions: the effect it has on people. Anyone in a position of power will probably agree with me. There are pluses and minuses.

The plus side is that people will listen to you more readily than if you aren’t on the map financially. The minus side is that they will reduce you to one dimension and keep you there.

Power is not just about calling all the shots. It’s about ability. You can call all the shots, but if they’re bad ones, no one will take much notice after a while.Know what you’re doing. That’s where the real power comes from.