Ты не слушаешь. Что мы упускаем, разучившись слушать, и как это исправить

104 …так называемых альтернативных фактов… – “Conway: Press Secretary Gave ‘Alternative Facts,’ ” Meet the Press, NBC video, 3:39, January 22, 2017, https://www.nbcnews. com/meet–the–press/video/conway–press–secretary–gave– alternative–facts–860142147643. Donald Trump famously said “Donald Trump: ‘My Primary Consultant Is Myself,’ ” YouTube video, 3:11, posted by MSNBC, March 16, 2016, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7CBp8lQ6ro.

105 …но и боятся их – “Partisanship and Political Animosity in 2016,” Pew Research Center, June 22, 2016, http://assets. pewresearch.org/wp–content/uploads/sites/5/2016/06/06–22–16–Partisanship–and–animosity–release. pdf. stopped talking to a friend Jeremy Peters, “In a Divided Era, One Thing Seems to Unite: Political Anger,” New York Times, August 17, 2018, https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/ 17/us/politics/political–fights. html.

106 Мышление высшего порядка уменьшает активность миндалевидной железы – Oshin Vartanian and David R. Mandel, eds., Neuroscience of Decision Making (New York: Psychology Press, 2011), 89–93.

107 …существование обратной связи между активностью миндалевидного тела – Joseph LeDoux, The Emotional Brain: The Mysterious Underpinnings of Emotional Life (New York: Touchstone, 1998). Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ (New York: Bantam Books, 1995), 13–33.

108 …в большей степени подвержены тревоге и депрессии – Matthew Scult, Annchen Knodt, Spenser Radtke, Bartholomew Brigidi, and Ahmad R Hariri, “Prefrontal Executive Control Rescues Risk for Anxiety Associated with High Threat and Low Reward Brain Function,” Cerebral Cortex 29, no. 1 (2017): 70–76, https://doi. org/10.1093/cercor/bhx304.

109 …дети, выросшие под чрезмерной родительской опекой – M. Justin Kim, Matthew Scult, Annchen Knodt, Spenser Radtke, Tracy d’Arbeloff, Bartholomew Brigidi, and Ahmad R. Hariri, “A Link Between Childhood Adversity and Trait Anger Reflects Relative Activity of the Amygdala and Dorsolateral Prefrontal Cortex,” Bi ological Psychiatry: Cognitive Neuroscience and Neuroimaging 3, no. 7 (2018): 644– 649, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bpsc.2018.03.006.

110 …существует избыток нейронов – Thomas A. Avino, Nicole Barger, Martha V. Vargas, Erin L. Carlson, David G. Amaral, Melissa D. Bauman, and Cynthia M. Schumann, “Neuron Numbers Increase in the Human Amygdala from Birth to Adulthood, but Not in Autism,” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 115, no. 14 (2018): 3710– 3715, https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1801912115.

111 …на самом деле произошла в Оклахоме – Austin Prickett, “Police: Fight Over Star Wars and Star Trek Led to Assault,” KOKH Fox25, July 6, 2017, https://okcfox.com/news/local/police–fight–over–star–wars–and–star–trek–led–to–assault.

112 …что нам известно как процесс обучения – Carl Rogers, On Becoming a Person: A Therapist’s View of Psychotherapy (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1961), 25.

113 …человек должен обладать «негативной способностью» – John Keats, Selected Letters of John Keats, ed. Grant F. Scott (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 2002), 60.

114 …когнитивная гибкость — Jesse G. Delia, Ruth Anne Clark, and David E. Switzer, “Cognitive Complexity and Impression Formation in Informal Social Interaction,” Speech Monographs, 41, no. 4 (1974): 299–308, https://doi.org/ 10.1080/03637757409375854; Claudia L. Hale and Jesse G. Delia, “Cognitive Complexity and Social Perspective-taking,” Communication Monographs, 43, no. 3 (1976): 195–203, https://doi.org/10.1080/03637757609375932; Michael J. Beatty and Steven K. Payne, “Listening Comprehension as a Function of Cognitive Complexity: A Research Note,” Communication Monographs, 51, no. 1 (1984): 85–89, https://doi.org/10.1080/03637758409390186.

115 …способствует здравым суждениям… – B. R. Burleson and J. J. Rack, “Constructivism: Explaining Individual Differences in Communication Skill,” in Engaging Theories in Interpersonal Communication, ed. L. A. Baxter and D. O. Braithwaite (Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage, 2008), 51–63.